727glasair
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I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 5:40 am

Hi friends! About twice a week I drive to SEA (just 20 mins drive) and watch the planes. There is a good viewing spot just 300 yards west of the Tower, in the old United Cargo parking lot, right up on the fence next to the action. I just park there for about 3 hours and closely observe landings and departures. I have binoculars and also check on Flightaware for destinations, etc.

Though I have about 4500 hours PIC time, it nonetheless fascinates and entertains me to watch these planes. In an odd way, it is also relaxing or comforting to me, as it somehow makes me feel "in touch" or connected with the nation or the world. I love seeing the Hainan 787-9 depart for Beijing or the Icelandair 757-200 arrive from Rekjakvic, or the Emerites 777-300 ER come in from Dubai, or the Fed-EX MD-11 depart for LAX.....or even just the Delta E-175 arrive from Boise.

I often invite my wife to accompany me, but she is having none of it. She thinks I must have some problem in the head, that maybe I am mal-adjusted to life or reality, or have some other mental deficiency. Perhaps I do? Anyway I just tell her I like to go and watch the airplanes.....
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 5:43 am

Divorce her and watch more planes
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 5:52 am

Everyone has their hobby, tell her to be more open minded!
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 5:57 am

Welcome to the club :bigthumbsup:
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 6:07 am

Explain to her why you love watching airplanes and maybe she will join you. My wife loves to accompany me and we even have a name the plane competition
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 6:19 am

A friend of mine once told me that Airliners.net was my airplane porn. lol
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 7:19 am

I once asked the wife of a person who was very much a 2nd dad to me, if it bothered her about all the time and money her husband spent fishing, hunting, boating, etc...

She told me that it really bothered her the first few years of her marriage... and then she learned that almost all the husbands of her girlfriends were hanging out in the bars... spending more money than her husband did, and getting drunk a lot and into other problems. That put it into a different light for her... She would much rather see him do what he does on his free time than head to the bars (or the strip club).

I'm not sure of the polite way to pass that on... but; she has the ability to make choices... and learning to live with someone's hobby that does not normally get them into trouble is not the worst thing in life...

I wish you the best,
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 7:52 am

Have you ever thought that she might be right?
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 10:10 am

What's wrong with plane spotting? ...far better than having a smoking, beer-burping slob of a husband who sits on the couch all day watching football on TV...
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 11:41 am

I have a few possible responses you could share with your wife but you'd have to change the title of this thread in a few months to...

"I watch/spot airliners; ex wife thinks I am nuts...."

So probably best not to comment on the money she spends on shoes and makeup :-)
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 12:12 pm

& you married this woman? What’s her hobbies? Shopping & reality tv?.....
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 1:37 pm

When I got home from plane spotting, I told my wife she had drawn her eyebrows too high.
She looked surprised.
 
727glasair
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 3:41 pm

Yeah, 2 or 3 guys we know, have other hobbies like going out drinking late at night or playing poker and losing tons of $$$. My wife should not complain too much about MY hobbies.....could be much worse.
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 5:40 pm

727glasair wrote:
Yeah, 2 or 3 guys we know, have other hobbies like going out drinking late at night or playing poker and losing tons of $$$. My wife should not complain too much about MY hobbies.....could be much worse.


Are there any "official" spotting locations at SEA? My wife couldn't care less about watching airplanes, but at MSP they built a spotters park with a few benches & picnic tables. When the weather is nice she tags along to at least sit outside on a nice day. If there is something like that near you, it may be a way to get her to tag along.
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Feb 09, 2018 10:27 pm

You could also take her to one of those Caribbean Islands where you can do spotting, and experience the thrill of the planes up close. She might appreciate it then ;)
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Sat Feb 10, 2018 1:33 pm

groundbird wrote:
When I got home from plane spotting, I told my wife she had drawn her eyebrows too high.
She looked surprised.

:biggrin:
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Sun Feb 18, 2018 5:44 pm

Ha ha I love this thread. To be fair, she probably has a point in saying you're obsessive, people in my life have told me that since I was a kid. My response is always to ask what the harm is in it, and that usually shuts them up. The other week I impulse-bought a $150 747 kit that will take me 50 hours to put together. That's pretty cheap entertainment if you ask me....
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Mon Feb 19, 2018 1:15 pm

Bring back all airport observation decks... So proper and ideal place for families
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Wed Feb 21, 2018 11:01 am

2175301 wrote:
hanging out in the bars... ,


Hang on, are watching planes and drinking mutually exclusive?
I normally try to combine the two....


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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Tue Mar 06, 2018 2:13 pm

chrisp390 wrote:
Everyone has their hobby, tell her to be more open minded!


Yup. I don't nag to my wife about her excessive cleaning. I let her do it :D

I just started my own blog called flightmap, which actually was her idea. She said I should target my enthusiasm to something useful.
http://flightmap.livejournal.com/

But let's see what she says when I get started. My plan is to write at least 5 posts a week :D And I am a slooow writer.
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Thu Mar 08, 2018 4:07 am

Its simple really...
You: I am going to the peeler bar...
Her in an alarmed state: NO YOUR NOT
You: Then can I go watch airplanes?
Her: Ugh Ok
Let her make the decision for you :)

Not much happens at YYB or that's were I would be instead of on my PC. My wife only joins me when the Snowbirds are in town and loves it, but other than that, that's the extent of her caring about whats flying over head .
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Tue Apr 24, 2018 7:45 pm

There is an unfortunate consensus (at least in my experience) that an aviation love/hobby (no WN pun intended) is something for children and people "grow out of it", as if it's any different from people extremely passionate about cars, which seems to be more socially acceptable. Once your wife gets past this, she'll be more manageable.
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Sun May 13, 2018 4:08 am

I guess I should consider myself lucky. My wife gladly goes with me spotting, and she was never into aircraft before she met me. In fact, the other day, she saw an aircraft at altitude making a hard left turn and asked me if it was being vectored to a particular waypoint. I asked her how she knew about vectors, and she said, "I live with an avgeek!"
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri May 25, 2018 11:02 pm

rotation18L wrote:
I guess I should consider myself lucky. My wife gladly goes with me spotting, and she was never into aircraft before she met me. In fact, the other day, she saw an aircraft at altitude making a hard left turn and asked me if it was being vectored to a particular waypoint. I asked her how she knew about vectors, and she said, "I live with an avgeek!"

I am officially jealous. And for the record happily divorced.

But I'm raising two awesome daughters that know Daddy is happy receiving Lego airplane models as gifts and expect daddy to be looking at planes at or near the airport.

You have to train them early!

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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Wed Jun 06, 2018 4:25 pm

lightsaber wrote:
rotation18L wrote:
I guess I should consider myself lucky. My wife gladly goes with me spotting, and she was never into aircraft before she met me. In fact, the other day, she saw an aircraft at altitude making a hard left turn and asked me if it was being vectored to a particular waypoint. I asked her how she knew about vectors, and she said, "I live with an avgeek!"

I am officially jealous. And for the record happily divorced.

But I'm raising two awesome daughters that know Daddy is happy receiving Lego airplane models as gifts and expect daddy to be looking at planes at or near the airport.

You have to train them early!

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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Mon Jun 11, 2018 3:12 am

Cheaper than golf :cloudnine: My wife would go watch the planes on weekends at SFO with her dad during her high school years.
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Tue Jun 12, 2018 12:06 pm

You are nuts! Welcome to the nuthouse!!
 
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Re: I watch/spot airliners; wife thinks I am nuts....

Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:10 pm

September11 wrote:
Bring back all airport observation decks... So proper and ideal place for families

You got that wright. I can't even watch planes at the perimeter fence without being told to leave. let's face it a lot of the enjoyment has gone.

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